yes. the hardest thing on earth to say is probably Sorry
especially to someone so dear to us
despite us saying it so unselfishly to any random people everyday
we know we are at fault
yet it just wouldnt come out of our mouth
because we are stupidly stubborn
trying to hold on to our so called "backbone"
want to apologise yet afraid to
afraid of many silly and "can do without with" reasons
perhaps we should start reflecting now
how often do we say something hurtful and leave without apologising?
especially to our family
i believe most of us are never stingy
when it comes to saying Sorry to friends or strangers
but we often tend to neglect this part when it concerns our family
we take our family members for granted at times. or maybe most of the time
im not sure about others. but i guess i am
there were so many times when i said something hurtful in a moment of anger
and i felt really contrite and guilty after that
yet i never apologise even when i really wanted to
or sometimes it never even cross my mind
so maybe we should watch our words and give alittle bit more concern from now on

sometimes we do not even notice an unintentional remark hurts too..